Showing posts with label how we survive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how we survive. Show all posts

Saturday, September 21, 2019

7 Quick Takes - August and September Catch up

Linking up with Kelly ... let's go in reverse order because it has been that long (and doesn't include any of the crazy from this week - that's possibly worthy of it's own post)

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Last Sunday... 

(A supervising the clergy : ) 

Our bishop came and blessed the grounds/site/cornerstone for the church that is being built. If you thought single parenting kids at church was interesting then you should give an outside church experience a whirl. Complete with blazing hot temps and a few fire ants smack dab in the middle of rest time. 

In reality it was a really good time and the kids did quite well - all things considered - and we got a special blessing for baby number 6 which was great. Last week I was kind of just blocking out L&D (because who wants to do that!??!?!) but I've really tried to shift my mentality and focus. 

Also, less than a week until a whole other person is a part of our lives??? I mean the baby has been a very real reality in my life for the last nine months but when you get to put a name with a face and a sibling with their siblings that's when the reality of a new baby can really hit me. 


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M and the rock wall..



M made it to the top of the rock wall this week. Note the verb climb was not used. Well partially climbed but mostly was assisted all the way to the top. I think this might give her the confidence to actually climb it next time - but she was thrilled either way. 


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E has some pretty high aspirations for swim this season... 





Which will require her to really work hard at and outside of practice. I would NEVER tell her not to try but it is going to be a huge stretch. She has taken to doing some exercises at home which R and M will sometimes get in on and C finds wildly interesting and she gets right in the way of her. 

I've encouraged her to run a mile once a week (or more) but I think half the thrill of that is getting to use my phone to track her run pace. I've thought about getting some sort of FitBit device but I'm not sure I'm ready to invite that into the house yet. 

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M has her first take home project...



Y'all know me and a project. I've got to block out mental energy and patience to get through them. But this one is an easy one that big sisters remember doing so they had to see what was going on... 


The hot glue gun got us through and this was the final product!

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AHG is in full swing:



This is actually from the kickoff meeting and the girls got their faces painted - which they thought was the best so we had to document it because it came off before bed. E moved up groups - which I think she was ready for and it already figuring out how many and who can help her with badges she wants to do. 

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Fall activities are in FULL SWING... 



I love a schedule so we've been in the groove now for about a month and it feels pretty manageable. E and R started swimming in mid-August and M and A started soccer (with E and R helping me coach). Helping is very loose term but nonetheless they'll learn early to step up to volunteer. AHG for the big girls and we let E add children's choir to her line up of activities. Having a set dinner plan with quick interchangeable options is huge. I don't know why it took me until last year to see that but now I know the dinner drill requirements and it makes evenings so much less stressful. 


A opted to be the Sharks although the Chickens was a very close second - but I'm thrilled to not be shouting Chickens!!!!!!!! during out team cheer. M (and her friend) picked the Groovicorns - which if you don't know are way cooler than unicorns so check out the double sided sequins book - and I blame my friend (for buying her that book) ENTIRELY for having to yell Groovicorns for a park full of people to hear. I think I laugh every time with cheer : ) 

Yes I'm coaching (with some serious backup assistants). Yes I'm about to have a(nother!!!!!!) baby. Yes I'll probably take a week or so off from soccer but then I hope I'll be out there with new baby in tow. I make no guarantees but I sure do enjoy it. And aside from getting outrun by the kids it is going well. Between the boys and girls teams I've coach well over half the kids which is fun to watch them learn and way easier when you aren't starting from scratch because now they pretty much have a clue as to what I'm trying teach (that's another loose term too : ) 

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All things school... 

This is from the day when C's bookbag came a while ago and she proceeded to march around the house shouting 'I pre-tee, I pre-tee' 


School is overall is going quite well. Everyone is happy with their teachers and figuring out expectations and all that fun stuff. M and C probably had the roughest restart runs. C had about a week stretch where she forgot how much fun she had and decided she needed to scream when I left. Which I hate leaving a crying kid but ever since that rough patch I open her door and she (tosses her bookbag to the floor) goes in like she owns the place. 

M was an interesting case too. New school. Lots of new faces. New schedule (hello all day!). New everything. So basically the first few weeks were really tough. She hated the towel I packed her for rest time - even though it was green - it was too small and the class was too noisy to sleep - she's definitely my best rester if she rests. Everything was a problem (or at least she wanted me to see it that way - to everyone else school was great). Honestly I did see a 180 degree different kid from the one who was here this summer - maybe not everyone else, but I could tell a difference. That first full week of school I finally saw the M I was used to out on the soccer field playing with her friends. It was good and it was relief. I put alittle reward on the table if she knocked some of her school stuff off her plate (but mine too because its K and basically everything at home is parent driven- HW, reading, sight words, spelling etc etc etc). She rose to that challenge - like I thought she would - and despite everything in me that says one sport per season (and an oldest child who has no problem reminding me of my policy) M went back to swim this week and is thrilled. Kindergarten is definitely a huge adjustment and now that we're a month or so in, I think M's found her groove.

Saturday, June 1, 2019

MayFIies, May Flies, May's Flown

Well May has come and gone. In some ways it flew by and others I didn't know if it'd ever be over. I really tried to be present this May and not wish it away. My goal was to take at least a picture a day - and I did that for every day except two. We made it through the craziest part of pool season with alot of asking for and receiving help. It was a fast month. It was a fun month. Here they are with a quick description... 

Quick trip

Soccer snacks

Insta-beach

Goal scorer

PAPA!!!!!!!

Twining 

Bookworm

Accessorizing

Mother's Day breakfast


NINE!


Pom-posting

Reminders...

Character Day

A plane!

Nerves

BUS!

Game time prep

Great church behavior celebration

Dinner mess

The first last

Rock selecting

A really big water gun

Opening Weekend

First popsicle of the summer

Sweet celebrations


Runners Up

EOY Party Ham

The second end sadness

Friday, June 2, 2017

7QTs - End of School, Start of Summer & Red, White and Blue


Picking up where we left off... somewhere in between crazy and insanity just in time for a Memorial Day weekend break.

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Seeing that it was Memorial Day weekend it is worth pointing out that the big kids realize that - hey something is different because it is Monday and we don't have school. So R asked what Memorial Day was? E responded that it is when we remember all the people who died in war. R needing clarification asked if everyone died on the same day. And E said no its just we remember everyone on Memorial Day but they died at different time. 

If kids don't understand this they ought to. We live in a crazy world but in a country where we have freedoms and rights and we can never forget those people who lost their lives to preserve and protect our freedom. 

Now lighter subjects...


We had to run an errand after church which included a stop at donuts and bagels. E got the last RW&B donut and the shop pretty much closes up when they totally run out - so there's no let's wait 5 minutes so they can get more out of the back. 


M settled on an orange donut which I never got a taste of but she liked it so whatever. 


A was the beneficiary of some confusion about which donut M wanted so he was pleased 


And insanely cute!


And a mess :  )

R was with us but was not a donut recipient because when I tell you you'd better shape up in church so that you can earn your donut and then you retort back that you don't want a donut... then guess what... NO DONUT. R has a habit of saying things that she really doesn't mean - I think just to see what I'll do so now I'm holding her to more of the things that she says and I'm hoping she gets the point. 

Which is completely different than M who says things and means them. Example. Yesterday she was eating a hotdog for lunch and she got up and said - I don't want my dessert. and I look over at her plate and there's half a hotdog left. So I tell her fine and then dessert time rolls around and she proudly will announce that she isn't getting her dessert. 

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On Memorial Day we all put on our Red White and Blue...

 And headed out to celebrate an AR point milestone for E. I told her she could get another set of books or go out for ice cream or snow-balls. This time she picked sno-balls (last time she picked books)

Cotton Candy I want to say

Strawberry (with the big van photobombing)

Pink something that got a thumbs down from me 

I shared my Blue Raspberry with A and Papa did NOT share his Cherry with him. Coincidentally we all ended up with blue and red flavors which makes my OCD self very happy. 


Then the girls and I headed to the pool for opening weekend and it was pretty much swamped. I think R might give swimming a run for its money this year because if she really wants to - I think she could do it. M is way more nervous than I remember her last year 

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Then it was back to the normal...


A came bounding out of school one day but then when back to the stroller to grab a flower and I thought he was going to give it to me but then he didn't and plucked it apart in the car. Next time I'll be sure not to get my hopes up. 

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This week was our End of Year Week... 


End of AHG awards ceremony


E earned 9 badges and has high hopes of earning a lot more in the next 2 years she's still a Tenderheart plus some service stars so she's devising ways to rack up some service hours.


I'm so glad we've found a program that is Christ-centered and lifeskill building that she enjoys. For comparisons sake... Last year she had a few more teeth I think. E's already talking about R joining in the fall and cannot wait to show her the ropes

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Then 18 hours later (smack dap in the middle of NAP TIME) it was End of the Year 1st grade celebration 


I love our school, I love our class of kids and parents and we had a pretty rockstar of a teacher this year so it will be hard to close this 1st grade chapter for E. 


Each child was awarded a candy that the teacher said exemplified them. E got a SKOR bar which I've not heard of or tried. 


She got an AR award too but was way more interested in the cake than anything else. 


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After the program and after a quick nap for A we headed out to the pool despite the kitchen being a disaster area (one of the benefits - seeing the positive - about Lee working until dusk is that I can bank on him NOT coming home to find the kitchen a wreck. Call it his thing, but he thinks if you are going to play then the mess should be cleaned up; clearly we don't agree so during pool season I can clean up the kitchen at 7:30 and still be 'safe' ; ) 



A will be living in this lovely apparatus for the summer. He fought me hard on it and continued the screamfest for a while be - ASK ME IF I CARE. 

'Mom, this is totally not cool' 

Anyways he got over it at some point and ventured to the pool steps and had a nominal amount of fun. M got in the water more than Monday probably because there were way fewer people. R melted down a bunch because it was a late night at AHG plus no rest. E was generally annoyed that there were more people to play with. But whatever.... 

I tried a new recipe for dinner and the kids didn't turn up their noses and Lee actually ate it - not that he gave it raving reviews - but I think it might get put in rotation with a few tweaks. 

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Our hang up clothes are probably the most telling of our transition... Transition from spring to summer.... 


Papa's clothes, spring sports clothes, Catholic school uniform, bathing suits... Next week it's going to only be bathing suits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Last night capped off the spring sports madness with 3 games in one night (at the same park). I basically read Lee the riot act and told him I needed him at the park at 5:45 or else. R had a tee ball game at 6. M had a soccer game at 6 - which I had to coach and E had a soccer game at 7:30 and A is a loony tune. Papa came through for us even though we probably won't see him until 8 or 9 Friday and Saturday because of it.


E and R still have games left tomorrow but those are in the morning and totally manageable. Here's to getting through our spring sports activities.